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Thursday, March 17, 2011
Monday, March 7, 2011
Sad News~
:( Received a sad news from my dearest cousin, mentioned that her hubby has decided & agreed to go for divorce. HAIZ~
I felt sad that a marriage that has come this far, is now resulting in a divorce. I mean, it makes me think, then why in the 1st place, a couple will get married?
If a marriage fails coz' e guy or e gal has committed adultery, den fine. I will not even feel sad that a divorce is on the cards. But if it is not coz' of adultery, isn't there rooms for negotiation?
Haiz, den again, my cousin has been telling me how unhappy she is? Although finally she can get out of this marriage, she felt sad too... Coz' of kids + no matter what, she has been staying in that family / house for 9 years. OMG, so long!
Thinking back, why the marriage got distanced away? sometimes they quarrel over $, but partially is coz' her hubby has found a new job, that needed alot of attention & travel. 80% of his time are overseas. N when he's in SG, he is working, he doesn't bother about the wife at all. Both of them are so independent. If they do go out, is sometimes with the kids. And even so, the times spend together get lesser and lesser as time goes by.
Sometimes, really feel they are better off without each other.
However, now that this is going to be finalized. Don't know why just felt sad? Maybe coz' of the kids ba....
Getting into a marriage is easy, is maintaing a relationship that is tough! Remember: do not take your close ones for granted!
I felt sad that a marriage that has come this far, is now resulting in a divorce. I mean, it makes me think, then why in the 1st place, a couple will get married?
If a marriage fails coz' e guy or e gal has committed adultery, den fine. I will not even feel sad that a divorce is on the cards. But if it is not coz' of adultery, isn't there rooms for negotiation?
Haiz, den again, my cousin has been telling me how unhappy she is? Although finally she can get out of this marriage, she felt sad too... Coz' of kids + no matter what, she has been staying in that family / house for 9 years. OMG, so long!
Thinking back, why the marriage got distanced away? sometimes they quarrel over $, but partially is coz' her hubby has found a new job, that needed alot of attention & travel. 80% of his time are overseas. N when he's in SG, he is working, he doesn't bother about the wife at all. Both of them are so independent. If they do go out, is sometimes with the kids. And even so, the times spend together get lesser and lesser as time goes by.
Sometimes, really feel they are better off without each other.
However, now that this is going to be finalized. Don't know why just felt sad? Maybe coz' of the kids ba....
Getting into a marriage is easy, is maintaing a relationship that is tough! Remember: do not take your close ones for granted!
Updates~
Been 3 weeks since I log in? Haa~ heng my bff is busy wif work, if not she'll say me again~ :P
Hmm nothing much recently, Sharleen went for Biposy on 3rd March. I didn't go in as I don't bear to see her going thru all these, hurts too much~ Hubby went in with her, I stayed outside. Doc's nurse came to pass me a survey form, mentioned doctor said Sharleen was brave! She didn't cry at all, not even when given the injection for the numb. Baobei, you are really indeed brave! =)
However, not sure if it's related... She got a scared? got a dream? She cried / weep in her slp @ nite... Poor thing! It just broke my heart to see her so young going thru all these.... Hurts! Ouch~
Removal of stitch & tests result out in 2 weeks time, 17th Mar, hope all is well! :)
Deary is also getting much better with his eyesight, didn't go do the MRI scan though.
So much of activities... I am still the same old mi... Getting old, body ache all over! :D
Hmm nothing much recently, Sharleen went for Biposy on 3rd March. I didn't go in as I don't bear to see her going thru all these, hurts too much~ Hubby went in with her, I stayed outside. Doc's nurse came to pass me a survey form, mentioned doctor said Sharleen was brave! She didn't cry at all, not even when given the injection for the numb. Baobei, you are really indeed brave! =)
However, not sure if it's related... She got a scared? got a dream? She cried / weep in her slp @ nite... Poor thing! It just broke my heart to see her so young going thru all these.... Hurts! Ouch~
Removal of stitch & tests result out in 2 weeks time, 17th Mar, hope all is well! :)
Deary is also getting much better with his eyesight, didn't go do the MRI scan though.
So much of activities... I am still the same old mi... Getting old, body ache all over! :D
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