Sad News~

:( Received a sad news from my dearest cousin, mentioned that her hubby has decided & agreed to go for divorce. HAIZ~

I felt sad that a marriage that has come this far, is now resulting in a divorce. I mean, it makes me think, then why in the 1st place, a couple will get married?
If a marriage fails coz' e guy or e gal has committed adultery, den fine. I will not even feel sad that a divorce is on the cards. But if it is not coz' of adultery, isn't there rooms for negotiation?

Haiz, den again, my cousin has been telling me how unhappy she is? Although finally she can get out of this marriage, she felt sad too... Coz' of kids + no matter what, she has been staying in that family / house for 9 years. OMG, so long!

Thinking back, why the marriage got distanced away? sometimes they quarrel over $, but partially is coz' her hubby has found a new job, that needed alot of attention & travel. 80% of his time are overseas. N when he's in SG, he is working, he doesn't bother about the wife at all. Both of them are so independent. If they do go out, is sometimes with the kids. And even so, the times spend together get lesser and lesser as time goes by.
Sometimes, really feel they are better off without each other.

However, now that this is going to be finalized. Don't know why just felt sad? Maybe coz' of the kids ba....

Getting into a marriage is easy, is maintaing a relationship that is tough! Remember: do not take your close ones for granted!